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Natural births were unheard of back in the 60’s. Laboring mothers were sent to the hospital and most were given a drug that was referred to as “Twilight”. A majority of those babies were born blue due to stress from the drug and lack of response of the mother pushing.
Breastfeeding was a taboo at that time as well. It was thought that the only people to even consider nursing babies were dumb, backwoods people. A nurse told me that it was vulgar to put a baby to your breast to nurse. The doctors told us, ‘How can you know that your baby has enough milk unless you measure it?’ ‘Since you cannot measure breast milk, it is dangerous to nurse.’ ‘Breastfed babies suffer from hunger!’
Those same doctors went on to say that in order to get full nutrition you needed something that was proven by doctors to be nourishing for the baby. Babies grew fat on doctor-recommended home-made formula of pasteurized milk highly sweetened with Karo Syrup. At that time baby commercial formula or disposable diapers were still not invented.
Medical science had strayed too far from natural ways. Thinking mothers began to question their doctors.
In 1973, I was one of those young women trying to find the path back to God’s way of motherhood. I began to ask questions. A doctor pooh-poohed me. His arrogant attitude left me feeling dumb. An ancient motherly instinct rose up in me that gave me courage to speak out. “I WILL have my baby at home, and I WILL nurse! And if you call the Child Protection Agency on me, then I will run and hide and STILL give birth to and nurse my baby!”
But wars aren’t won by solitary soldiers. It takes a collective voice. The women of the 60’s took matters into their own hands and started writing books on how to have a natural birth, how to nurse, and how to bond with babies instead of sending them off to a nursery. Homeschooling was born in that moving, changing environment. Since that time there have been hundreds, maybe thousands of books written concerning these subjects but it was the pioneers who blazed the trails that wrote with a passion birthed from their struggles, and even rebellion. It was this same passion that made young mamas jump up and scream, “Yes I CAN!”
Now because a few courageous authors used their voices and their pens, blue babies and twilight births are a thing of the past. A doctor would be laughed out of his clinic if he told a mother it was vulgar and unsafe to nurse her baby. These first home-birthed, breast fed and homeschooled children are now highly educated and successful adults homeschooling their own balanced happy children. In the end when it comes to her babies, Mother knows best.
While the books and literature I read weren’t from the perspective of believers, there was a lot of valuable information being made available to women who wanted to re-discover natural methods. I was able to benefit from their willingness to share their knowledge and experiences.
The Vision has been one of the ways I have sought to ‘pay it forward.’ Just as I have gained much from the visionary writings of women who came before me, I hope that the information I share will be used by those who follow.
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I am a mother of three. Two births by c-section and a third, due to revelations by women who have paved the way, a homebirth vbac. I love Jesus Christ, I love His Word. I love that there are people out there who are willing to risk security and the status quo to tell it. Debi Pearl, by divine authority through her husband, is one who has been shown approved to do such a thing. I am half way through The Vision and am being blessed beyond measure. It has not only given me a respite through its beautiful story line but has made me hunger for more knowlegde of natual living, politics, and most of all Bible prophesy. I have read Created more times than I can count and have ordered at least 30 copies to give to women as the Lord moves. It has saved my marriage and so many others. Please all who see this, read No Greater Joys literature and pray for their ministry daily. The blessings will entirely be yours.
Thank, Debi, for this new book and for all you’ve done for women everywhere-to help bring us out of the darkness and shine His light on our lives! I look forward to reading The Vision!
Thanks for this article! This is very incouraging to me since I will be having my fourth home birth in November.
I am married to a pastor who preaches an unpopular message about persecution coming to the U.S., and a student of midwifery, herbs, a home educator and one who serves and intercedes for matyrs, the unborn and the lost.
I don’t usually take much time to read fiction, but will have to for this intriguing story.
Thank you for your many years of service through NGJ and the many ministries you and Mike are involved in. We sure would love to meet you some day this side of Heaven.
Thanks for an encouraging article! I recently started on the path of natural healing and herbs, and your and your daughter’s websites have been great sources of help to me. I have four children. My youngest was born very prematurely at 30 weeks. I was told I couldn’t nurse him, but I prayed and felt God wanted me to give him the best milk for him – mine. For two long months I pumped, froze, and delivered bags of milk to the hospital to be fed to him via a tube. He thrived on my milk and today at 3 years old weighs 35 pounds! He has a mild form of autism, so now my dear husband (a Mr. Steady) and I are seeking the Lord for the direction He would have us go for our sweet boy’s recovery. Thank you for using the gifts God has given you to be a help and encouragement to other women seeking to be God’s best gifts to their husbands and their children!
Debi, I just loved this book!! I am really speechless! It is THE PERFECT book, I am recommending it to everyone! I can’t wait for the second book to come out and try to get the Berry Herbal Brew- it is out of stock at the Bulk Herb Store and it is nearly impossible to find all of the ingredients! I love the homebirth part of the novel as well, I had 2 of my 3 children at home and it was the most peaceful way to have a baby! Even though I have “giant 9 lb 8oz” babies with God’s help I had almost painfree deliveries- amazing! Thank you again for your amazing gift in this book, I have fallen away from God more than i should have but this book pulled me back into his embrace! Thank you so much!! Love, Jen
I am sitting here nursing my first child, a 3 month old little girl named Grace. I would like to tell you how thankful I am for your book Created to Be His HelpMeet. My husband and I have been married a short time, but your book continues to revolutionize our marriage. I actually know non-believers who read your book and believe the principals of what you are teaching(hopefully they will be led to Christ too!) When our relationship is going really well my husband will often say have you been reading Created… usually I have been. We are already buying to Train Up a Child, because we have read friends copies and value the information in the pages of that book. Thank you for being a voice for Christ and wisdom for Marriages and Families.
Thank you Debi!
I have had 6 children, 4 were home births. It seems like it has been forever looking back……
I always had people thinking that I was crazy, how unsafe it was…what if? What if? What if?
The same band of “supporters” were on the anti-homeschool bandwagon. I have never been like the rest….never. I was raised in a broken home / homes was bounced around alot, physically, mentally, sexually and emotionally abused growing up. I had my first child at 14 years of age. My God reached down and saved me from the pits of hell. He washed away my sins and set this captive free! Still….after all the distortions I was taught about who God was….life was pretty miserable for a long time. I had no idea about “how” to serve the Lord. I trusted NO-ONE to show me either! So I read the bible. I read, and read….start to finish I read. I learned the nature of our God. I learned that all those people that separate old from new testaments trying to live by grace were really missing some important things. God is still God. Old and new testaments. God is perfectly balanced. He is a God of love, He is a God of wrath as well! He is all seeing omnipotent, merciful and JUST! He hates SIN!!! He loves RIGHTEOUSNESS! He is full of grace! He will also execute permanent judgement upon the wicked. Yes, I learned this all on my own…..well…..without a preacher. God revealed Himself to me and I am so happy to know him. I am a backwoods, hillbilly type of person in most ways. I love a simple life without all the nit picking stupid stuff that people try to impose upon me. I rebel against people pressuring me to do what “they” think I should do. I LOVE the LORD!!!! I want to do what HE wants! I often encourage myself in the story of David. I feel like he was not perfect, did not cater to all the religious practices, did not put on a “show” of holiness for all to see…instead, he was a man after Gods own heart. I am so imperfect….I used to read all of the books from the Pearls which I have gained alot by doing so. However…if I read too many at a time I was overwhelmed at how many flaws I really have. I would have to take a break and come back later. :O) With everyone against me in the things that mattered the most to me….it was tough to go through with home birth, home school….still MY goal for my children is that they make it to heaven. THAT is my priority. Becoming a rocket scientist was not. Raising real kids that REALLY love God is my life mission as mom. Thanks for listening to me ramble……I have a problem with that too! :O)
Loved the Vision, I am wondering when the Test is coming out?
We ordered a ton of herbs, berry brew, and a water purifier. I was feeling guilty about spending so much $ because I was loading that cart pretty well. I felt maybe I shouldn’t…then I heard a still small voice telling me that I wasn’t being selfish by ordering all this stuff but rather…I was helping support another one of God’s families. Praise be to GOD!!!! Thanks for everything!
Shannon
Wow Debi,
You have impacted my life more than you will ever know and I am so thankful for you and all of your hard work. What I love about you and your husband and your children is that you are all trust worthy. I have a very hard time trusting anyone. I have never met you or talked to you but I trust you. You have become my favorite resource as far as what books to read, what herbs to grow, how to train my children. You are so valuable to me. Thank you so much for everything you do. I pray for you and your husband almost every day. I am learning so much and changing so much, thanks for all of the help.
I have been reading your books since before I married. My husband and I are missionaries in the Philippines. We argree that persecution is coming to the US faster than most think. My three babies were all born at home. The last was born in the jungle with just my husband there to catch. She is now almost two. Even though mother’s today are nursing most are not nursing past age one and many do not understand that thier milk is better than solid food. While doctors today may not discourage nursing infants they do discourage mothers from nursing “older” babies. I am always so glad for the receipes that you share. Church get ready – may your flight not be in winter.
I loved The Vision and look forward to passing it on. I have a question about the Mock Hollandaise sauce recipe :). It says 1/2 yellow mustard, what is the measurement supposed to be?
Thank you!
I tried to homebirth and although the baby refused to come out, it was such a wonderful experience to labor AT HOME with a birthing pool while surrounde by “my own territory.”
The hospital experience was a nightmare! I labored for two days at home and then was stuck for three days of awful pain and fear because “we only have one OB on duty so you have to wait!” And that was that. Finally, on day five, (I was sure I was going to die!) I had an epidural (which was a mercy at this point) and I was up on that awful delivery table in that big, cold, awful room and no one would even coach me or talk to me. They didn’t even tell me how dialated I was… I had to ASK “Is it safe for me to push or am I not dialated enough?” I was just told “no” but not told anything else or even how dialaetd I was at that moment? (Thank God for those natural childbirth books that taught me so much or I might have hurt myself.) All I wanted to do was push but I lay there trying to breathe through the contractions while three silent, cold people stared at me like some kind of non-human lump. I was nothing to them. I have more compassion and interaction when lambing a sheep then they had with me!
The OB (who had accused me of endangering the lives of other laboring women by begging for help…) wanted to jack me up on drugs to increase my contractions (which were more then powerful enough!) just so she could rush me along… but I refused.
Baby went into distress which was no surprise and I ended up with a c-section. Then, while still numb and half-paralized a nurse stuffed the baby onto my breast. Elspeth bit my nipple, I howled, and then I was asking for help because I had no idea how to nurse but, “Sorry. Not enough time to help. Gotta go.” and that was that. (I knew that the baby shouldn’t just be biting the nipple but beyond that I was clueless.) So it was bottle feeding for baby because there was NO help at all.
UGH!! The women of the Sixties did a lot to make child birth more natural but in the hospital it seems to be going back to being cold, clinical “get on the production line and shut up!” nonsense. I wasn’t impressed! And I’m not looking forward to my next delivery ~ twins. I can’t wait to have those babies in my arms but the thought of being stuck in the hospital system again is horrifying. I’d homebirth if I could but something is wrong with my pelvis so I can’t get babies out!
That is so funny that you mention this. I had 2 c-sections because (shame on me!) I was ignorant! But through NGJ literature and the Bulk Herb Store I got myself into herbs and healthy eating and eventually healthy birthing (Hospital birth, under most circumstances these days, is NOT healthy – for mother or baby!) My 3rd baby was born 2 months ago at home with a midwife!!! IT WAS AMAZING!!! Just another way you and NGJ are affecting people!! Thank You!
It is amazing how “dumb” I was in raising my (now 8 year old) child. I was told by doctors to “change formula” and “take antibiotics for ear infections”. This has left my daughter with a horrid case of candida (yeast) overgrowth, which is so extreme that she can only eat certain foods. The reason I am typing this is b/c had I been more ‘in tune’ to my child, I might have realized that it was, in fact, the formula itself that caused all the problems leading up to antibiotic overuse. I am glad that I have become wiser, with much of the help coming from articles in your magazines.
My husband and I adopted our third child, a baby girl whose 15 yr old bio mom was on her way to having a late term abortion at 30 weeks.
The Lord showed me in the ten weeks prior to her birth how to bring in my breast milk with herbs. I was able to exclusively nurse her for over a year. I give the Lord all the glory and honor for sparing my daughter’s life and allowing us the wonderful time of bonding through breastfeeding. If I could have enough milk without giving birth, maybe other mothers with a strong desire to nurse but don’t feel they have “enough milk” will find encouragement in this comment.
I can’t wait to order my copy of The Vision…I am waiting until November 3rd as requested in the recent NGJ magazine. Please pray that as I pass it on to my mother, Debi, that she will see God and realize her need for Jesus. As for home births and nursing I say gooooo Mamas! We delivered our 2nd child Jude just 5 months ago in our bed at home with our amazing midwife. I nursed our first baby until he was about 2 years old and am happily nursing away again. I am always amazed that people even question whether or not they should nurse…
I was the first of my family and friends who nursed. It was so freeing. I was seen as a freak and didn’t care. I used cloth diapers but didn’t get to have my children at home. However, when my daughter in law found out she was pregnant I sat her down and told her she can have her baby any way she wants. She had a successful and wonderful home birth. That was gratifying. She said she would do it the same all over again. I don’t read much fiction. I devoured every word of your new book. It has made me really think and start asking questions.
I, too, rose up to defy conventional wisdom to nurse my first child in 1971. We homebirthed our third child in 1979. The shock to me is that women cannot remember the truth. I thought it would become common for women to nurse their babies but it is still few who start and fewer who continue. Birthing? It is no longer doctors who force women to birth their way. Today’s woman DEMANDS to have her baby while numb. Demands a scheduled C-Sec, demands an induction EVEN THOUGH the facts are clear about harm to the baby. It shocks me to know we as women can be so cruel. The Bible describes women eating their own children. Clearly, we are not far from that. No one is forcing this on women. They demand it. May Christ protect us.
Debi, my husband and I read your book, “The Vision” together. We enjoyed it tremendously. I even saw my “Mr. Steady” cry out lound when Magdelene’s Muslim girls were seen dancing in the streets! We were both sobbing at the breakfast table in front of all our kids :)We can’t wait for the sequel! We’ve read TTUAC and Created and everything else from NGJ that we can get our hands on! We are awaiting approval to deliver 4 cases of “Good and Evil” to a local boy’s prison (chaplain says it won’t be a problem). That book is an amazing tool designed by God! I say all this to tell you that after our Holy God, your ministry has been the most profound guide in my life and the lives of my family. We are so happy in every way and I know that it is because of the mercy of our Savior Jesus Christ and the wisdom He imparts to you and then you to us! Thank you, thank you, thank you for your faithfulness to His great calling on your life. I pray we will be found as faithful as you!
Thank you. In Jesus name I pray for you and your family to be blessed throughout eternity. In desperation I cried out to my Father in heaven for help. Help in so many areas and ways. And His mercy sent me to the simple truthes found in His word. Thank you for teaching these truths. With love your sister Mary
Thanks for all you do. Our family loves your ministry and learns from them. I had my first child two years ago in November and had a home birth – my midwife was tremendous – I will go that route for all of my other children! Keep up the good work!
Thanks for your encouragement, Debi. It sounds like your new book will be an amazing encouragement (just like your other books have been to me). I am all for natural birthing and breastfeeding – however, due to unforeseen circumstances in my life, I have only been able to have one natural childbirth – and two c-sections. And I am planning on having my third c-section this summer…not my idea of a dream come true, but I am trying to find the joy and excitement in my situation (and if you can believe it, I started re-reading Created and it has helped me to be joyful not only for my husband’s sake, but in this situation as well!) Thanks again, Debi!
When I had my first child my mother’s cousin, who is a midwife, sugested homebirth and i went for it. I had 5 babies at home in my bed. I would have them no where else and never would have excpet for a 50% abruption with my 6th child. After that I had two more births both of which had to be in a hosptital as my midwife and husband refused to deliver at home again. So 8 babies later I can say without a doubt that home is best. I was uncomfortable and unable to deliver in the hospital.
As a former OB Nurse who did work on a hosiptal birthing center…I can say with no heaviness in my heart that I too believe that natural vaginal delivery is best. I have had two natural deliveries. I have also breast fed my children until the age of two. This is the most heavenly experience I have ever had.
Reading these comments are an encouragement to me. We have not been able to have children yet. Please pray that if it is God’s will we will be able to experience the joy of having a baby one day.
This article is such a great encouragement to read!! Sometimes when you’re the only person doing the sane thing, you begin to question if you’re truly sane or not. ;) I have had two homebirths and nursed both my little ones, and am now trying to track my fertility using natural methods—another “unheard of” thing in this day and age of pumping hormones into women’s bodies. Hooray for taking a stand!
How true this article is. I have had all three of my children at home and feel like it is one of the biggest blessings in my life. I have also nursed them anywhere from 13 mo to 23 mo and would also have no other way than to nurse my children. I have enjoyed your books so much, Debi, and look foward to having an opportunity to read The Vision.
Debi,
I need help. I am 20 weeks pregnant and I was wanting to get some Red Raspberry herbs to make Tea with. I was wondering, is this Red Raspberry herb the same as actually red raspberry plants but younger? I was considering collecting some local raspberries and using for this, however, this may not be the same and may not work. Can you help me to understand if there is a difference and how I can use this to help the remainder of my pregnancy and my deliver as well as when I nurse.
Thanks so much for the help!
Blessings,
DeAnna